How are you guys doing? It's been a while since I've written something, I'm so sorry, but now I'm back. Today's topic is going to be a little eye opening for some of you and might motivate you to do something about yourself - something positive of course. Wondering what it is ? Read on.
Something Everyone Is Lacking
People are lacking this one crucial thing in their daily lives nowadays, Confidence. If you haven't listened to Demi Lovato's song Confident then what are you waiting for? That song inspired this post and the tittle. She is one person i really look up to. Let's talk about Demi for a little while.
Demi has been bullied at a young age and she has been to rehab before. She was criticized for her weight and size many times by her haters. But did she give in to them? No, of course not. She wrote the song Skyscraper to proof how strong she's come and say " hey, are happy watching me bleed? Well guess what, I'm going to raise like a skyscraper above all your opinions. " She wrote the song Confident for people who have low self esteem issues or feel bad about how they look in the mirror. Demi wanted them to embrace themselves and show the world that there's nothing wrong with being themselves. Because YOU DO YOU. And there's no one that can stop you from being YOU.
Another person I'd like to talk about is of course the one and only Miss Taylor Swift. Taylor has been really popular recently after the release of her new album 1989. One of my favorites from that album has to be Shake It Off. The meaning behind that song is as simple as 123 : the haters are going to hate anyways, so just F them and do your thing. It's the same logic as what I've written about Demi above. DO WHAT YOU LOVE BECAUSE YOU LOVE IT.
How To Be Confident
Being confident about yourself isn't that simple as it may sound beca use first of all you need to learn to love yourself and many find it hard to do so. You need to learn how to embrace those imperfections and love the way you look in the mirror. There's no guidebook that says " How To Be Confident 101 " Okay maybe there is such a thing but it doesn't really matter in my opinion. Why? Because everyone is different and everyone has different flaws that they need to learn how to appreciate. Listen to Love Myself by Hailee Steinfield.
Wear whatever you want. Wear makeup if you like it. Straighten your hair, curl it, tie it up or let it loose. Wear heels even if you're already tall. Wear flats even if you're considered short. You think you look nice today ? Great, take a selfie. Do what makes you happy. Do what you love. Do it because it makes you feel better about yourself. No guy or girl can tell you what to do or how to feel. YOU BE YOU AND YOU DO YOU :D
I think the new sexy is being confident about yourself :')
much love, hugs and kisses !!
xoxo Chloe
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