It's Okay Not To Be Okay #1

Hey Runaways.

Hope you guys had a great September holiday cause school is starting tomorrow !! No :( Today's post is going to be something very deep and sentimental. As you can see the tittle of this post is " It's Okay Not To Be Okay #1." Why is there a "#1" ? Well because this topic can go on forever and ever and it's not going to stop. Like it or not, we are all humans and we have our breaking points. So let's get started. 

Faking A Smile

I hate to say it but everyone, and i mean everyone, has faked or forced a smile before. We all have our weaknesses and they somehow will get to us sooner or later. It's all just a matter of time. But let me tell you this, it's okay to do so. I understand that sometimes you just want to avoid the trouble of people asking you are you okay or how are you because you're not but you have to lie and say that you are. And smile.

It hurts. Of course it does. But whatever reason or person that caused you to feel bad about yourself deserves to rot in hell. They are people we do not want in our lives. You can just smack them in the face and say bye bye b*tches. 

However, you have to understand that those people who ask about you, they care. Sadly some people only care about what happened because they're nosy. But don't worry, some people truly care when they ask you how you're doing. Choose who you want to open up to wisely. Do not be afraid to tell them what happened. Cry. Scream. Hit something. I don't care what you do but as long as it makes you feel better , other than hurting yourself -.- , go ahead. Do it. 

You've probably heard this for the millionth time but crying DOES make you feel better. Just let it all out - all your anger, hatred and sadness. If you're more of a loud person, i suggest you scream or rant to someone. Go to an overhead bridge and scream your lungs out. Scream into your pillow while punching it. Rant to your best friend about how horrible the situation is. Regardless of what you do, so long as it makes you feel better, JUST DO IT!!! Don't hold back. Remember this " we are all human and we are not perfect. " 

Haters 

We all have haters. Face it. Out of a billion people there has bound to be that one person who just hates your guts. Usually that one puny person always gets us and ruins our entire mood. Sad truth. 

But hey, are you seriously going to let one puny person ruin your happiness ? 

Yes, sometimes there aren't just one person maybe a huge group but honestly do you have to bother about them ? Your haters are your number one fans, hey ;) Think on the bright side, you have supporters on your side. Your friends, family etc. They all care and I'm sure they respect your decision on what you're doing.  

Take Miranda Sings or Miley Cyrus as an example. You ought to know one of them right :)? After Miley's so called "change" there was a hell lot of hate but did that bring her down ? No. She stuck to who she was and she did not change for anyone. Her parents think she killed it hosting the VMAs this year and they are proud of her, erm so at the haters, who are you to hate on her ? She's still the Miley who starred in Hannah Montana and that's a fact. As for Miranda, she is known for her classic red smudged lipstick and high waist pants look. She gets hate to , well everyone does but what does she do with it ? It became her "thing" to say : Haters Back Off. I couldn't agree more to that statement. Look where she is now , over 4 million subscribers on YouTube and a YouTube sensation. Like it or not Miley is going to twerk and Miranda is going to sing. Face up to reality, they aren't going to change for you - to the haters :) 

Even celebs can handle hate so why can't you :) One piece of advice for you : Learn to ignore. Learn how to shut the negativity out and only absorb the positive vibes. Do it because you love it not because it's what others want you to achieve. 

Well that's about it !! Hope you guys took something out of this post and have a amazing day ahead.Remember it's okay not to be okay. Stay rad and smile always <3 xx 

"I'd rather be hated for being myself than to be loved by being someone I'm not."

much love, hugs and kisses !!
xoxo Chloe